Do you have a lover? a sweetheart? Or do you in love right now? If so, congratulation to you. I hope your relationship with your sweetheart will be last forever.
Right now I want to be your ‘love doctor’ for a while:). I got an idea to write about this while I was in integrated product design class. The idea begin to across my mind when my lecturer ask us(his student) about what is the best thing when at teen age. We told him, “it is to enjoy all the day”. 
Then he answer us back, “the best thing is to love someone and to be loved by someone and study is the worst thing to do.”
Actually he want us to relate our love to the subject he teach(design). How? Then I think about that. Keep thinking till I came out with an idea. When we love someone, we always try to keep knowing her/him more deeper. We will learn about responsible. When we start to love someone that mean we start to appreciate ourselves, to take care of our partner/couple. to be responsible to him/her and to protect him/her.
How to relate it with your blog?
Look, just imagine your blog is someone that you love. Your sweetheart ( I really take care of my blog like my wife ) What do you expect from your lover? Nice looking? Up to date? Honesty? For sure yes right…
So, if your blog is your lover, you will expect to have the same thing. You should give your blog look nice in terms of blog design. But the blog design is a subjective thing to discuss. It depends on the individual.
How about up to date?For human, up to date is in terms of dressing style(fashion) and catch up the global news. In blogging field, your blog content must up to date. At least 1 post per day(usually). Do you think your blog will be revisit if your blog only be update one per month? I don’t think so. Remember, not because you need to update your blog everyday, you do not have to take care of the content quality. Give some value in your article so people will revisit your blog looking for another good article. For me, I will write one post per day using a fresh idea of mine. I rather not to write new post if I have no point to say. At least, I will come out with three posts a week.
Being honest in your writing will add more value to your blog. Don’t be a copycat. If you desperate to copy someone article, just ask the owner, whether he give you a permission or not. If yes, please link back the article to original site. It will show that you appreciate someone’s work.
It is not wrong to write what people had wrote but give your personal view on it. Don’t just copy. Here what I do to come out with good idea. I keep a small book(jotted book). Yes, I need it because I want to jot down all the information I read in others blog. I’m not wasting my time only to comment others blog but I’m also read for new information. The information I read, will be jotted down in my jotted book.
By doing that, I won’t forget the information. I know someone will tell me to just bookmark the page. I have a reason also on doing that. When we write something, we will remember the point compare to just bookmark the page. Do you learn about mind-map? When we write the point(information) on a paper, we can elaborate the point. We can plan how to build the point to be a good article.
Don’t think, you are in internet lifestyle, you don’t need a piece of paper and pencil. Always go back to the old style if you are stuck.
Do you see the point? If you love your blog, you will never let your blog die. You will strive for everything to build your blog.
Don’t you want your girlfriend(blog) look gorgeous in your friend eyes(your readers) ?
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Nice opinion. Well, I do blogging but it doesn’t mean that I love to do that. Haha. But, you are right when you’re saying about passion on someone or something that we love as we can or have to do more than anything about it.
Hope you get good achievment in blogging
yeh, its really important to make blogging as your partner that is actually the secret for blogging success. this posts motivates me.
gook take care of her(your blog) dude!